I’ve been listening to this audio - Stop Marrying Mistakes – in the series on Escape from Relationship Hell. Click here to listen.
Often, our relationship problems and challenges are based on deep-seated patterns of thought and behaviour.
In order to bring about changes at a deep level, we need to uncover these patterns and change them.
The power is in your hands. To read more, see my ebook What They Don’t Want Us to Know. You can now download it for just $3.99. This is a summer special, so get it while it’s hot!
Click here for What They Don't Want Us to Know.
Plus, click here to download the free chapter on Achieving Success.
Des O'Connor is holding an event where 50 single Black women will get to meet and talk to 50 single Black men, after three hours of life coaching. To read more, see Why Can't Successful Black Women Find Good Black Men?
Click here for my Amazon Author Profile.
Here’s to your success!
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Monday, July 19, 2010
Wednesday, June 30, 2010
Why Can't Successful Black Women Find Good Black Men? (Part 3)
Click here for Part 1.
Click here for Part 2.
Des has some excellent videos on his website, featuring Hill Harper
.We know Hill Harper as an actor from CSI New York. He is also the author of several books, including The Conversation: How Black Men and Women Can Build Loving, Trusting Relationships
. To read more, see Black Men, Women, Relationships
One point Hill makes is that Black men talk to each other, Black women talk to each other, but the sistas and the brothas are not communicating with each other. Des and the panellists at his event made the same point.
Des's work is all about building lasting relationships. His work is not for those who are just grazing, cruising or looking for short-term romance. If you are serious about building a lasting relationship with a partner, click here to check out his site.
Des will be holding a singles event in which you are guaranteed to meet at least 50 Black men and chat to all of them in the course of the evening. Click here for info and to book.
Click here for the Success Strategies fan page.
To find out about future events for the Black community, click here to join Nurture Success.
Thursday, June 24, 2010
Why Can't Successful Black Women Find Good Black Men? (Part 2)
Whenever we start to move towards our goals, whenever we start to move forward in a positive direction, we become more aware of what is getting in the way. As I say in Success Strategies for Black People, "Love always brings up its opposite for healing".
That is one reason why people don't come to this type of event. They allow their fears to get in the way.
If their friends and family members are saying, "What are you doing that for?", it just means those people's fears are being triggered.
If you think your fears, doubts and worries are getting in your way, come to my Relaxation Workshop in London on Saturday. I'll show you how to overcome them.
The Why Can't Successful Black Women Find Good Black Men? event was very stimulating. Click here to read more.
I disagreed with one of the brothas on the panel. He kept saying, "You are all competing for the same men.
"There are so many men who are married, so many are in prison, so many are dating exclusively outside the race. You are all competing for the ones that are left."
That is scarcity thinking. Scarcity thinking creates scarcity. Abundance thinking attracts abundance.
Click here to read about Changing Scarcity to Abundance.
One sista in the audience said, "I met my partner EIGHT HOURS after I finished with the previous one, and we are on our way to getting married".
She also said, "If you can't find a man here, travel. There's a whole world out there". Excellent advice, in my opinion.
If you want to learn about how to attract what you want, wherever you are, come to my Relaxation Workshop this Saturday.
Des is going to be holding a singles event where you are guaranteed to meet and talk to 50 Black men at the after-party. Click here for more info and to book.
Click here for the Success Strategies fan page.
To find out about future events for the Black community, click here to join Nurture Success.
Here's to your success!
That is one reason why people don't come to this type of event. They allow their fears to get in the way.
If their friends and family members are saying, "What are you doing that for?", it just means those people's fears are being triggered.
If you think your fears, doubts and worries are getting in your way, come to my Relaxation Workshop in London on Saturday. I'll show you how to overcome them.
The Why Can't Successful Black Women Find Good Black Men? event was very stimulating. Click here to read more.
I disagreed with one of the brothas on the panel. He kept saying, "You are all competing for the same men.
"There are so many men who are married, so many are in prison, so many are dating exclusively outside the race. You are all competing for the ones that are left."
That is scarcity thinking. Scarcity thinking creates scarcity. Abundance thinking attracts abundance.
Click here to read about Changing Scarcity to Abundance.
One sista in the audience said, "I met my partner EIGHT HOURS after I finished with the previous one, and we are on our way to getting married".
She also said, "If you can't find a man here, travel. There's a whole world out there". Excellent advice, in my opinion.
If you want to learn about how to attract what you want, wherever you are, come to my Relaxation Workshop this Saturday.
Des is going to be holding a singles event where you are guaranteed to meet and talk to 50 Black men at the after-party. Click here for more info and to book.
Click here for the Success Strategies fan page.
To find out about future events for the Black community, click here to join Nurture Success.
Here's to your success!
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